You probably know that a lot of blogs and websites you find online talk about how to make money or how to be more successful. I have my own opinion of this and I will warn you that some people will love it and some of you will not like it at all.
All those websites are right AND wrong. Why? Because reading and learning what to do to further yourself in where you want to be IS actually taking action. You’re learning something new. Taking further action is required, however, in order to make anything happen based on what information you’ve gained.
I want to point out to you a few ideas here that I believe will help you understand where I’m coming from as I’m sure a lot of you are probably not in agreement with me. If you are however, great!
Why Learn Anything New?
This should be obvious but apparently it isn’t for a lot of people. The world is always changing. It always has been and always will be. The Internet is no different. You need to keep up with what’s going on however you can in order to understand the game of life and in order to actually ‘get there’. Not knowing what’s happening will leave you in the dust and if you’re not talking to people and figuring out what’s going on, that’s where you’ll end up.
What’s The Point, Anyway?
This is a question only you can answer. If there’s not a reason that’s strong enough to keep you going at this then you’re going to find yourself giving up and calling it quits just like that. Having a why is huge when it comes to doing anything in life where you want to improve yourself. Blogging is no different.
My Reason Why: To better the lives of everyone I possibly can as fast as possible and help them succeed and achieve what exactly they’re after in life. Bottom line here is to have fun doing it because life is too short not to.
Why You Should Strive To Make MisTAkeS?
What? Who wants to make mistakes? I do and I highly recommend you join the club. If you don’t allow yourself to make mistakes and instead run from them all and hide, you’ll never learn anything. I’m not saying you should WANT to mess up and keep messing up. I’m saying mistakes are what show us how we can do better the next time. Go for that. Because you’re going to make mistakes whether you want to or not so look forward to them and look even more forward to the lessons you’ll learn and then fix them fast.
Be You.
Everyone wants a part of the Internet and wants a list and relationships and money and an amazing design for their blog and wants to be known for quality content. Sound familiar? It should because it’s the truth. Bottom line here is to just be yourself. Give all of what you are to the world. Be smart about it, of course. But give yourself to other people and let them know who you are and you’ll get a lot further a lot faster.
Forget About Your Crazy Blog. WHAT?!
Ok, don’t go all ballistic on me about this. Let me explain. This is what I’m seeing all over the Internet and it’s quite sad if you ask me. We’re all in this to win this. There’s too many people who are trying to sell something that have no business selling anything. It’s probably because they’re not looking at the bigger picture and instead just wanting money. Why aren’t they getting rich? Getting rich is all they care about.
This one is going to be a bit longer than the rest.
I’m not going to ramble on to the point of confusing you so I will get to the point here as this is part of what I’m talking about in the first place. Everyone wants to be accepted in the world. We all are looking to find ways to better ourselves and want to know what other people think about us as well as stand for something and not be pushed around. And that’s all great stuff, it really is.
Here’s the problem. Your blog is your home online where it all starts. It’s your face to the rest of the world over this virtual thing we have called the Internet for years now. Unless you have the money to travel and actually meet people who you connect with online, in person, you’ve got to make yourself known for the right things on your blog every time without question.
I think people have forgotten this because even though things are always going to change and ways of communication are always going in different directions faster and faster, it comes down to the same things as anything else does in life.
Think smart about and remember what it is exactly that you want from others and in return give it to them, first.
You want to find out useful information from someone you feel you can trust on a personal and professional level. Ok, be that person first.
You want to be told the truth and you value honesty from others and want them to understand and respect who you are. Ok, again, do that first.
You want to buy an awesome product from someone who isn’t going to rip you off and who stands behind their words all the way. Great, create your own product and do just that for someone else.
You want other people to like you for who you are and build a lasting and meaningful relationship with them. Wonderful. Put in the time and effort and go out there and be discovered.
We can all do this and we all should do this but too many of us choose not to because we’ve been told by those who aren’t even people we respect or would want to be like that there’s another way. A secret. And for X amount of $ we can have that secret.
Here’s a secret for you and this one is for free so I don’t expect you to take it seriously (though I wish you would because this one actually works).
Be you.
Be nice to others.
Help others whenever you possibly can as fast as you can and with all you have to give them.
Do the small things in life that count.
If it looks too good to be true, it isn’t probably, it just is. Why even waste your time on this one?
Love.
Read.
Embrace new ideas and possibilities and then go for it!
Have fun.
So why should you listen to me when I haven’t made a single penny on the Internet yet and there’s others who are making a complete full time living doing just this? Reread everything I just said and if you still question this then I don’t feel you’re ready for what it really means to be successful with yourself.
I want to help you by giving you what information I have and what advice I have. I want to help you get there and in return I’ll get there. Money is something that will come as I keep doing what I do and time takes its toll. I’m always open to any suggestions you have as you’re helping me then and I can’t thank you enough for that.
What do you feel taking action is all about? Do you think success is about helping others or about money or about having fun living your life the way you dream of it? Do you think taking action is where it starts and ends and everything else is just a result?